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I'm pleased that people would be
interested in knowing more about me besides my name. Where
do I begin?
Well, the reason I'm here is because I'm
Kris and Jessica's mother. Due to this connection, I am
considered part of this family because I am their mother. I
participate in their upbringing and have joint custody with
their father, Doug. Kris lives with him now and he takes
Jessica every other weekend. I get Kris on every other
weekend, which means that both houses get a break from the
children, thus making it easier to have more patience and
understanding when they are around.
Many may find this
a strange arrangement but in order to ensure the well being of
the children, if more divorced parents put their children's
well being first...then this would be the norm.
Carol
always says that we should give divorce lessons, but I just
think it's very basic. If you both love your children and Doug
and I do - then why shouldn't their interests beforemost.
Divorce hurts many people but the real victims are the
children and there is no need for them to be victims if a
divorce is handled correctly.
Doug and I both talk
regularly regarding the children and any problems they are
having - whether it be emotional or physical. I advise him of
any important events at school and he usually attends. This
way the children feel that they have not lost a parent. It
helps that I am (like Doug) working on myself at all
times.
I guess when the children arrived, both of us
realized that we needed to change and so we did. Although we
are in the process of divorcing, there is no reason for us not
to be at least friends for the benefit of the children.I
suppose I could share some wisdom on growing and being
emotionally healthy and what it takes, as this site will have
lots of that.
My
Picture
Here is a picture of
me. It was taken some time ago but Carol scanned the one that
Jessica keeps in her room at their house of me with them, so
this is all she had. It's good to know that my kids can see me
or talk to me by simply calling whenever they want, even at
their father's house. It's also good to know that they back up
my rules at their house as well so that the kids discipline is
always
consistent.
My
Children
I have two lovely
children, Kris and Jessica. My son and the oldest is Kris. He
has a site here as well and it's called "Kris's Place".
You can visit him by going to his site. Kris's
Place
My daughter, Jessica also has a site here.
It's called "Jessica's Place". You can visit her at her
site Jessica's
Place
My
Favorite Things
Some of my
favorite things are talking or meeting some of my friends for
coffee. Relaxing, meditating and reading. I enjoy working on
myself and my growth emotionally and mentally.
It's
hard work but for those doing it - it is the greatest task
anyone can do for themselves. Many people never reach a stage
in their life where they decide they need to change and grow.
That's too bad because the journey may be long but it's well
worth it. Just ask anyone who's taken it and I'm sure they'll
all tell you that they'd do it again. So if you haven't
already started to work on yourself, your growth, your
spirituality and emotional well being....maybe you should
start now. Why wait???
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